thurs went back.... then fri go sgh.. my leg condition worsen.. the bones shifted towards the outing liao.. then intact to hold the ankle.. going for MRi.. see ligament got tear not.. if tear then in duno wat to do..


after tat go see evangeline and her bf for lunch... then joke about army...
went back after tat.. slp for awhile then go see grandfather... after tat went supper with adam,adamgf,kelvin and johnathan.. dao 12 cab home..


sat morning wake up.. sis and mum go fetch grandfather home.. i noon then go coz i doing my own stuff... he got problem removing bowels coz he never drink enough water...


sis and me had a tiff with mum at grandfather house.. about brother responsibility as the eldest... well.. bro in law is only daughter, parents older then mine.. he and her had to take care them.. then our own de leh?? he neglected and he duno wats happening at home.. all the stuff... i was updated coz i got a heart to call sis and ask...


mum sided bro saying he dont want stress him coz he working at bank... juz change boss and department.. sis hear le.. i hear le ji tao say lo.. wa lao, own papa mama leh.. see my mama run like dog... coz some cb aunties never go see grandfather.. coz he needs care from us so tat he can have the mindset to become better and heal faster.. so mum and small aunt keep rotating.. they will worn out de lo.. 40s and 50s le leh their age...


sis say i also working wat... as a chemist.. i also got stress... i got the heart to see wats happening in my own family and help dad and mum out... with stuff.. y cant he do tat..


since young, mum sided him ma.. coz hes the study type.. i and sis is the hands on type... study not so well.. now..both of us juz want him to take care of papa mama.. although he need to work and help da sao take care her parents.. sis and sis in law also need ma.. they also got other side parents..



to me both side is the same... but somehow mum sided him... and mom always thought tat i still small.. i 21 le.. adult le.. somethings i can help i try... at least i can make an effort to do as part of a family member.. well.. at least i did..


i hope bro could do the same.. if he got come on my blog.. i seriously hope he can help with dad and mum with family matters.. coz afterall is still our grandparents and my parents are tired coz take keep going coz the other aunties never go down..
i hope he can pay more attention to own parents too...


Accept small auntie.. she and mum go down alot.. sis and me never ask for apperciation, juz hope tat he can tink about it..


mon 1000 book in :D


kitty